Best Friends Forever?

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Best friends forever, bestie,
twinnie, almost everyone has that special friend or friends who they can
unburden their soul to.  However, with
women the issue of friendship can be especially complicated. How often have you
heard of friends who stab their bffs in the back or just start behaving funny
for no apparent reason? Many end up becoming suspicious and find it hard to
trust anyone whilst others become as ruthless as the bad friends they once had.
Some will tell you that good friends don’t exist and that outside of your
family there really is no point having friends.
The truth is that God created us
to be social and even the most introverted being wants to have those one or two
people whom she can call “ore mi” from the bottom of her heart. That person who
she knows has her back no matter what and who looks out for her all the
time.  In the same way it’s also true
that some friendships are not meant to last a lifetime and even though it hurts
when you have invested in a friendship for years and then your so-called bff
throws it all away, rather than cry why not learn the lessons and move on?  Rather than rushing into new relationships
where you end up being hurt again try and learn to be good to yourself and
others.
It’s also important to realize
that the foundation for some friendships was flawed from the beginning and the
relationship was doomed for disaster. An example is a friendship based on
gossip and negativity which lacks substance and does not enrich the life of
either party. Some break ups are actually better for us and beneficial in the
long run even though the separation is difficult.  In summary don’t cry for the loss of a
friendship rather rejoice at all the opportunities out there to make new
exciting friendships because after all is said and done all you really need are
a few good friends.

**first published at www.twmagazine.net

Best
friends forever, bestie, twinnie, almost everyone has that special
friend or friends who they can unburden their soul to.  However, with
women the issue of friendship can be especially complicated. How often
have you heard of friends who stab their bffs in the back or just start
behaving funny for no apparent reason? Many end up becoming suspicious
and find it hard to trust anyone whilst others become as ruthless as the
bad friends they once had. Some will tell you that good friends don’t
exist and that outside of your family there really is no point having
friends.
The truth is that God created us to be social and even the most
introverted being wants to have those one or two people whom she can
call “ore mi” from the bottom of her heart. That person who she knows
has her back no matter what and who looks out for her all the time.  In
the same way it’s also true that some friendships are not meant to last a
lifetime and even though it hurts when you have invested in a
friendship for years and then your so-called bff throws it all away,
rather than cry why not learn the lessons and move on?  Rather than
rushing into new relationships where you end up being hurt again try and
learn to be good to yourself and others.
It’s also important to realize that the foundation for some
friendships was flawed from the beginning and the relationship was
doomed for disaster. An example is a friendship based on gossip and
negativity which lacks substance and does not enrich the life of either
party. Some break ups are actually better for us and beneficial in the
long run even though the separation is difficult.  In summary don’t cry
for the loss of a friendship rather rejoice at all the opportunities out
there to make new exciting friendships because after all is said and
done all you really need are a few good friends.
– See more at: http://twmagazine.net/2015/07/best-friends-forever-by-chioma-momah/#sthash.5zsHqUbB.dpuf
Best
friends forever, bestie, twinnie, almost everyone has that special
friend or friends who they can unburden their soul to.  However, with
women the issue of friendship can be especially complicated. How often
have you heard of friends who stab their bffs in the back or just start
behaving funny for no apparent reason? Many end up becoming suspicious
and find it hard to trust anyone whilst others become as ruthless as the
bad friends they once had. Some will tell you that good friends don’t
exist and that outside of your family there really is no point having
friends.
The truth is that God created us to be social and even the most
introverted being wants to have those one or two people whom she can
call “ore mi” from the bottom of her heart. That person who she knows
has her back no matter what and who looks out for her all the time.  In
the same way it’s also true that some friendships are not meant to last a
lifetime and even though it hurts when you have invested in a
friendship for years and then your so-called bff throws it all away,
rather than cry why not learn the lessons and move on?  Rather than
rushing into new relationships where you end up being hurt again try and
learn to be good to yourself and others.
It’s also important to realize that the foundation for some
friendships was flawed from the beginning and the relationship was
doomed for disaster. An example is a friendship based on gossip and
negativity which lacks substance and does not enrich the life of either
party. Some break ups are actually better for us and beneficial in the
long run even though the separation is difficult.  In summary don’t cry
for the loss of a friendship rather rejoice at all the opportunities out
there to make new exciting friendships because after all is said and
done all you really need are a few good friends.
– See more at: http://twmagazine.net/2015/07/best-friends-forever-by-chioma-momah/#sthash.5zsHqUbB.dpuf
Best
friends forever, bestie, twinnie, almost everyone has that special
friend or friends who they can unburden their soul to.  However, with
women the issue of friendship can be especially complicated. How often
have you heard of friends who stab their bffs in the back or just start
behaving funny for no apparent reason? Many end up becoming suspicious
and find it hard to trust anyone whilst others become as ruthless as the
bad friends they once had. Some will tell you that good friends don’t
exist and that outside of your family there really is no point having
friends.
The truth is that God created us to be social and even the most
introverted being wants to have those one or two people whom she can
call “ore mi” from the bottom of her heart. That person who she knows
has her back no matter what and who looks out for her all the time.  In
the same way it’s also true that some friendships are not meant to last a
lifetime and even though it hurts when you have invested in a
friendship for years and then your so-called bff throws it all away,
rather than cry why not learn the lessons and move on?  Rather than
rushing into new relationships where you end up being hurt again try and
learn to be good to yourself and others.
It’s also important to realize that the foundation for some
friendships was flawed from the beginning and the relationship was
doomed for disaster. An example is a friendship based on gossip and
negativity which lacks substance and does not enrich the life of either
party. Some break ups are actually better for us and beneficial in the
long run even though the separation is difficult.  In summary don’t cry
for the loss of a friendship rather rejoice at all the opportunities out
there to make new exciting friendships because after all is said and
done all you really need are a few good friends.
– See more at: http://twmagazine.net/2015/07/best-friends-forever-by-chioma-momah/#sthash.5zsHqUbB.dpuf
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